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June 1, 2015
Okay, that’s one long title but I feel it’s the best one for my topic. Today I want to tackle the question of organizing when your child is a collector.
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Great post! I have also struggled with getting rid of my childrens’ things without their knowing it! There have only been a few instances when they realized I had thrown something away and they were upset. However a few instances of upsetting them over something like clutter is too many in my book. I still go through all their “paperwork” and throw the trash away. My daughter (10) especially likes to save trash. And I mean trash as in candy wrappers, small pieces of paper that she cut up, etc. It drives me crazy because she says she is keeping it to make something but she never actually uses it! Now I include my kids in the process of going through their “junk”. We discuss it and I am proud to say that I do “give in” a lot more frequently now if they really want to keep something. I like to collect stuff too so I can’t really tell them they are in the wrong now can I? I hate clutter but I also hate to get rid of their art work or school work. I had 10 paper boxes of their school work that I brought down to 2!! I mean really who needs to save ALL the school work? Most of it is just worksheets anyway! Thankfully as they get older they have much less treasureable work so it is not as hard to throw away! 🙂
Oh man, this post spoke to me!! I am a “purger” as well…and my 2 girls are NOT. I am going to have to try implementing some of your ideas…right now their rooms do not seem to stay clean for more than one day at a time–SOOOO frustrating!
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Fantastic post Leighann; I am a collector, but I like tidy collections not messy ones!
This is really helpful for helping your little ones in practicing tidiness & practical collecting. Now I just have to wait and see if my first is a collector or a purger!
xox,
bonita of Depict This!
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A friend of mine passed along your blog to me because this has been a big topic in my house. My 5 year old son loves to collect things. Bins and bins of paper airplanes, boxes and boxes of “special things” he has collected in the last 3 years. Recently, it has started to drive me crazy! I have secretly thrown away hundreds of paper airplanes and have felt quite guilty about it. I like the idea of having him help me go through the bins in his room to decide what to purge. I think that would help him with realizing you don’t need to save everything and it would also help with not having to carry the burden of throwing away his precious things. Thanks for the great post!
Tracy – glad you commented. Let me know how it goes!